Post by nina05aaliyah06 on Nov 7, 2007 16:06:53 GMT -5
I don't know a lot of people on this board but I feel I need to vent somewhere. I am a single Mom of 2 girls. Calvin (my daughters Daddy) is from the USA. We were together for exactly 2 years. Calvin left when our youngest was 2 weeks old, so the middle of Dec. of last year. He went back to his ex-wife in MD (Maryland.) He came for the day back in March (8th.) And was here again at the beginning of Sept. for 4 days. I let him stay here (why I have no idea.) His ex gave him permission (get this) to have sex with me. Of course I did because it was 9 months since I had any (and the last person was him when I was pregnant with Aaliyah.) I had my tubes tied in Feb.
Anyway, he goes to ITT Tech in MD. His schedule changes every semester or some sh!t. This semester he goes Mon., Tues., Thurs., and Fri. He has not paid 1 dime since he left. He was in the military for 7 years and was getting his MGIB (some military loan or something) every month. For some reason he's not getting it anymore. He was getting $1000.00 a month. Now he sponges off of Kelly (his ex.) She has 2 kids (each with a different man) and neither are Calvins.
I'm getting stressed to the max. I sought Legal Aide to see if I could take him to court for Child Support. They told me that after the case I'd have to pay legal fees, lawyers, etc. costing me close to $5000.00. I said forget it that I couldn't afford to pay that. Calvin doesn't have a job. I don't know if it's because his schedule changes every semester or if he's studying hard or if he's just plain lazy. I love him, and I always will. I am broke and I don't know what else to do. His parents live in ATL (Atlanta) and haven't even met the girls. They don't send money, clothes, or even call. I'm at a loss. Thanks for reading.
Anyway, he goes to ITT Tech in MD. His schedule changes every semester or some sh!t. This semester he goes Mon., Tues., Thurs., and Fri. He has not paid 1 dime since he left. He was in the military for 7 years and was getting his MGIB (some military loan or something) every month. For some reason he's not getting it anymore. He was getting $1000.00 a month. Now he sponges off of Kelly (his ex.) She has 2 kids (each with a different man) and neither are Calvins.
I'm getting stressed to the max. I sought Legal Aide to see if I could take him to court for Child Support. They told me that after the case I'd have to pay legal fees, lawyers, etc. costing me close to $5000.00. I said forget it that I couldn't afford to pay that. Calvin doesn't have a job. I don't know if it's because his schedule changes every semester or if he's studying hard or if he's just plain lazy. I love him, and I always will. I am broke and I don't know what else to do. His parents live in ATL (Atlanta) and haven't even met the girls. They don't send money, clothes, or even call. I'm at a loss. Thanks for reading.